On the way home last night I realized I should have said... My House.

I live about 2 hours from Richmond, but if you have the time let me know. The place I was thinking about was Butt Rub Barbecue in Lexington. We had our convention in Lexington this year and some folks were talking about it. I didn't get to go, too busy, but the reviews are acceptable.
I guess the real Kentucky barbecue is out in the western part of the state. Mutton at places like Moonlight and Ole Hickory Pit are part of the local lore. I have tried it, but mutton isn't my favorite and I don't really care for the heavy Worcestershire based sauces as much as NC vinegar and even some sweeter red sauces. My wife says if you get the rub right... you don't need sauce! I tend to agree.
Sorry about the ramblings... hope that helps!